7 Signs You've Found Your Soulmate

 7 Signs You've Found Your Soulmate

hey everyone and welcome to top think today we're going to learn about seven signs you've found your  

soulmate now let's begin with number one unconditional support your soulmate is your biggest fan they'll  

stand on the sidelines cheering you on every step of the way because they want to see you  

succeed they want you to accomplish your goals and achieve your dreams because your happiness matters  

to your soulmate personal happiness is a common source of conflict in relationships with partners  

care about their own happiness and the happiness of the relationship but does your partner care  

about your personal happiness do they want you to succeed and achieve even if that means sacrificing  

their own wants and needs all right let's say for example that you get an amazing opportunity for  

your career to pursue this opportunity you have to travel overseas now a selfish partner may stop you  

from going they don't want you to leave them alone for so long or maybe they're worried that your  

relationship will fall apart now a soulmate would never stand in the way of your personal dreams  

because they know that your dreams will make you happy and that makes them happy so even if they'll  

be lonely without you even if they're worried about what might happen in the future a soul mate  

gives you their unconditional support because your happiness is their number one priority  

number two is vulnerable trust a soul mate feels like home spending time with your soul mate eases your  

nerves holding their hand cut your anxiety in half just talking to your soul mate puts you  

in a more positive state of mind in other words your soul mate helps you relax and escape from  

the rest of the world why do soul mates make us feel comfortable and safe well the answer revolves  

around one word and that's trust your soulmate is someone you can trust with all of your heart  

you trust them with your secrets you trust them with your weaknesses you're not afraid to show  

them every aspect of your personality in the same way your soulmate isn't afraid to show you their  

weaknesses either because you both genuinely trust each other without this strong bond you'd never  

really be comfortable around your partner you'd stay on your guard every time your partner's in  

the room according to relationship psychologists a distrusting relationship significantly increases  

your stress levels but why is that well because you can't be yourself all right let's say you  

get home from work and you just want to relax but you're afraid to let your partner see you  

in sweatpants or without your makeup if you don't trust your partner enough to bring down your walls  

well they may not be your soul mate but if you can be yourself around your partner  

if their presence feels like a safe haven well then you may have found your perfect match  

number three core similarities do you and your partner share the same values soul mates can  

be very different people you may be shy and risk-averse while your partner's outgoing and impulsive  

you may love reading for hours on the couch while your partner likes to be athletic and social your  

personalities may differ in obvious ways but the core of who you are may be exactly the same while  

interests passions and preferences are important our beliefs and values decide what kind of people  

we really are do you value kindness above all else does your life revolve around your family are you  

constantly in pursuit of greater goals or do you simply want to make yourself happy in the present  

your answers will lead you down different paths in life they fuel your most important decisions  

and they motivate your greatest sacrifices so do you and your partner share the same values  

are you both work-oriented do you both value family which is more important to each of you  

loyalty or self-respect adventure or stability you and your soulmate share the same core values  

even if you seem like different people your lives will be headed in the same direction  

you can understand how and why the other person makes their decisions because you  

understand each other's points of view and you share a similar perspective on life so don't  

worry, if you and your partner have opposite traits, don't worry if they like things that you don't  

the truth is if you have like-minded values your differing personalities may complement each other

perfectly number four love at your worst has your partner seen you at your worst I mean hitting rock  

bottom scares people off sometimes when the going gets rough you can tell the difference  

between a regular partner and a soulmate imagine you just lost your job after years of motivation  

and success you begin to struggle your passion fades you fall back into old habits and the  

quality of your life crumbles would your partner stick by you or leave you to survive on your own  

if your partner loves you at your best but leaves you at your worst well you've not found  

your soul mates because your soul mate will love you no matter what state your life is in  

whether you're struggling or succeeding this person is by your side every step of the way  

they're always rooting for you they're always proud of you and they're always excited to see  

what you're going to do next so don't settle for someone who only loves you at your best  

instead, recognize the people who stick through thick and thin if you  

find someone who loves you at your best and your worst you may have found your soulmate  

number five finding your teacher a soul mate is not just a friend or a partner a soul mate enters  

your life to teach you something a soul mate challenges you pushes you and helps you improve  

they encourage you to chase your passions and motivate you to abandon your vices throughout your  

life your soul mate will be one of your greatest teachers and also your favorite student because  

your soulmate isn't there just to teach you you have just as many lessons to teach them just  

think about your current partner or any of your past relationships did your partner challenge you  

did they push you did they motivate you have you ever known someone who breaks down your walls  

recognizes your insecurities and works with you to improve now on the other side of the spectrum have  

Have you ever done this for your partner if the answer is no then you've likely never met your soul mate?  

but hey that's okay you shouldn't live your life pretending that you're with the right person  

it's better to break up than force yourself into an unhappy relationship but remember this when you  

do come across someone who challenges you don't run away from them so many soulmate relationships  

dissolve early on because one partner refuses to acknowledge their mistakes or they get scared of  

change can be extremely difficult to learn and grow but if you've found your soulmate  

then you've found someone who will push you to new heights and learn right alongside you  

number six reciprocal strength do you feel more confident around your partner  

does your partner give you the courage to confront new challenges soul mates are a source of strength?  

in your life, a soul mate will always be a rock you can count on in good times and bad  

times your soul mate will be there to support you because they're fully invested in a relationship  

a soul mate doesn't view your partnership as something temporary they don't play down there  

commitment to you because hey they're all in that means they'll be there when you need them  

when life beats you down they'll pick you back up and you'll do the same for them because soul  

mates offer strength to each other they'd rush to your side as quickly as you'd rush to theirs  

now of course soul mates don't just catch you when you fall they also empower you to try new things  

so when you try to improve yourself soul mates give you confidence and courage  

even if things don't work the first time your soul mate will stand by you again  

and again if you've found someone who gives you the strength you may have found your soulmate

number seven the magic of hard work the final sign that you found your soulmate is hard work  

a perfect relationship will not fall magically into your life if you think you're the one lucky  

a person who stumbles upon their soulmate thinks again because great long-lasting relationships  

take an incredible amount of time and effort many people when they hear the word soul mate  

imagine love, at first sight, we've all seen stereotypical soul mates in movies right  

we've all read about perfect relationships in books if you believe the media you may be  

waiting for your ideal partner to appear before you as soon as you and your soul mate meet you  

may imagine living happily ever after but the magic of finding your soul mate isn't magic at all  

it's the product of years of commitment loyalty and hard work a soulmate isn't flawless or even  

ideal in fact your soulmate could look and act nothing like you expect yet you're drawn to this  

the person you feel it in your brain you feel it in your heart and you feel it in your gut they may  

have flaws but so do you your relationship may take years of work but every good relationship  

does so don't expect the magic of the universe to tell you when you've found your soul mates  

instead, pay attention to the way your partner makes you feel and examine the role your partner  

plays in your life and really envision your future if you can't imagine life without your partner  

well you may have found someone who's worth the hard work hey thank you for watching  

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